PORN, PERFORMANCE & PROFIT - MEN ONLY

PORN, PERFORMANCE & PROFIT - MEN ONLY

So you're back here again

So you're back here again

At the same place you swore you would never return to. Masturbating to pornography. Engaging in sexual behaviour that you know deep down is in conflict with who you are. You put in the work to not go there and even with your best intentions and actions, it didn't seem to work. The crazy thing is you know you are loved and have a "calling" on your life to do greater things. And while you sheepishly receive grace and forgiveness time and time again, your hope of a new way of living and operating to your full potential seems to wane each time you fall.

I've been there

I've been there

That was my life for 20 years. I tried to do what others had told me would help. I prayed more, read more scripture, attempted “cold turkey”, asked for deliverance prayers, attended conferences and the list goes on. There may have been an initial burst of inspiration and yet I would inevitably return to my old ways. Despite the seeming “successes” of life I could hold up to those around me to make me feel like I’m not a complete failure, at my deepest core I felt lost and without hope. The fact I was a Christian leader and believed God to be my unfailing Hope honestly made it all the more confusing and complicated.

There is hope

There is hope

However, in late 2019, everything changed for me. I was invited to join a few other guys struggling with the same stuff and I dived into a deep personal transformation journey that has well…completely transformed me. It has transformed my marriage. My family. My relationships. My being. It has transformed the way I think about myself, the way I think about God, the way I think about others. And yes it has transformed my deeply embedded pornography addiction into a place of healing for others.

porn is not the ONLY problem

porn is not the ONLY problem

Even though I found a new found freedom in porn recovery, I soon discovered that there were deeper issues I needed to confront. I wasn't just a porn addict but a performance addict. Performance was a way I would gain value. And if I wasn't careful "not watching porn" could become a badge of honour I could wave around.


Talk about deepest issues - how if don't work on deeper stuff other things will fill it eg food


Talk about Performance that needed recovery


Talk about Money as an area

You're invited to a new life of possibility

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A MAN OF INTEGRITY ISN'T BORN OVERNIGHT

  • Learn how to become aware of unhealthy coping practices and addictions that you may unknowingly turn to

  • Learn to stay on the edge of discomfort and grow in a healthy way

  • Learn to transform your mindset around money and learn how to use it in a way that aligns to your highest commitments

  • Learn how performance can mask your vulnerability and dangerously dictate your self worth

  • Learn to value sex as an extension of intimacy, as a beautiful expression of mutual intimacy and not a tool to simply satisfy cravings

  • Learn to live a life of deep commitment over a life of fleeting pleasures

  • Learn how to live with real accountability and why it's important not be left to your own devices

  • Learn how to develop true friendships that matter for life

  • Learn how to live with responsibility, learn how to live with joy and rediscover the importance of play in your life

MORE DETAILS

This unique learning experience includes 7 x scheduled group sessions of 90 mins, 2 x 1:1 sessions and email support with James ouitside the sessions. It will involve a mix of teaching, self reflection, practical exercises and personal coaching

Duration

3 months

GROUP SIZE

Limt of 3 spots

FORMAT

All sessions held over zoom

INVESTMENT

$4,400

Upcoming PROGRAMS

Oct-Dec 2023

Oct-Dec 2024

what others have said

what others have said

For as long as I could remember, it was so normal for me to feel hopeless and stuck. Whenever I was faced with the need to change my life, it felt like I had already tried everything and it felt like "this is as good as it gets". In my initial consultation with James, he told me "people are moved either by beauty or by pain" and as I reflected on the fullness of what life could be, and the example of hope that James carried in his own life, it was in that moment that I started to feel ready to give this fight one more go. The breakthrough program was such a rollercoaster because it unraveled how complex it was for me to find healing. Every issue I had been wrestling with has layers of stuff that needed to be dealt with, and it made me realise how much help I was going to need. James was able to come alongside me on this journey, not just as someone who spoke life and encouragement, but as somebody who was careful in being real and honest with me. Nothing was ever simple throughout this process, but that was one of the reasons why I knew deep and lasting work was being done. I felt like James understood me and was helpful in laying out what the road to recovery looked like. I'm grateful that James gets it, he gets how hard it is to holistically grow, but he continues to believe in people and believe in break-through.

Jermiah Liew

Media Producer and Project Leader

James helped me understand myself holistically. I felt encouraged and equipped to continue on my journey to healing and transformation. Through this intensive, I applied a new mindset, practices, and tools that make me a better man. If you feel stuck in your struggles, I'd recommend you consider this program to approach your challenges from a different angle. Having James as a coach and facilitator makes an immense difference. He's gone through the same experiences and can speak from his own journey.

Vitalty Kan

Sales Leader

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This program is for those who are commited to making life changes and have capacity to financially invest in their growth. Schedule a call to apply and see if this is a fit.

DISCOVERY CALL

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This program is for those who are commited to making life changes and have capacity to financially invest in their growth. Schedule a call to apply and see if this is a fit.

DISCOVERY CALL

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This program is for those who are commited to making life changes and have capacity to financially invest in their growth. Schedule a call to apply and see if this is a fit.

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LiveHolystic Coaching & Consulting operates on the traditional, ancestral and unceded territory of the šxʷməθkʷəy̓əmaɁɬ təməxʷ (Musqueam) and other Coast Salish Peoples. We thank these First Peoples who continue to live on these lands and care for them, and whose relationship to these lands existed long before the founding of Canada or British Columbia

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